I was thinking about what to write today....and I was surfing Google, when I came across this beautiful site. The site - http://ismsmessages.com/ - is filled with beautiful messages, and some of them got me thinking.

1. If you love someone set him free, if he comes back he’s yours; if he doesn’t he never was...

Now, this one makes you think of all the insecurities you have ever had in your life - whether in a romantic relationship or otherwise. But doing this is possible only for those who have truly loved, with all their heart….because allowing the person you love the freedom and space he or she deserves can be done only by those who have complete confidence in the relationship they share!

2. Love is not something that happens on first sight, it happens when you start knowing each other and in turn end up needing each other, for every feeling, for every thought and for every moment.

This I totally agree with – love at first sight happens only on the other side of the celluloid screen. In real life, you can fall in love only after knowing the person. I read somewhere once, that it is the easiest to fall in love with your best friend, because you know everything there is to know about them. They are always there when you need them the most – they have seen the best of you and the worst of you! They are the first people you turn to, in your moments of happiness and sorrow, anger and excitement!

3. Love is to think about someone else more times in a day than you think about yourself.

Isn’t this what happens in every relationship where there is a bond of love? A mother thinks more about her child, then she does of herself. A wife is more concerned about her husband having lunch, even if she herself is going hungry. When someone else’s mood perks you up or dooms your mood….you know that you are truly concerned about the other person!

4. Eyes are not meant for tears and heart is not meant for fear,

Never get upset but always cheer

Because you are the one who can make people smile for years.

Another true one – there might be a number of people in this world, who would give up anything to see you smile. I read elsewhere, that a smile is the second best thing to do with your lips; and in a world like the one we live in today, there is definitely the need for more smiles. So, smile, because you never know who is falling in love with it!