Paa...

God only knows, by what all names I have addressed my father - Dad, Appa, Papa.....but the most common manner of my addressing him as always been a simple, straightforward - Paa. So, quite obviously, when a movie with that name was released, both he and I were excited about watching it. Which is why we went to watch "Paa" yesterday...and well....let me say that it was time that I will not consider wasted.

Not only was the movie, singularly, one of the finest movies I have seen in recent times, but also a wonderful time I got to spend with my paa. Being the busy man that he is, it is not often that I get time with him, which is why it was all the more special. And it was nice to see him sit and laugh at the funny moments in the movie and slyly wipe his tears in the emotional parts.

"Paa" is not just about progeria, but also about the relationships we share in our lives. There is a scene in which Amol (Abhishek Bacchan) tries on Auro's (Amitabh Bacchan) glasses - it almost seems like an attempt to see the world through his eyes. And I really feel at times, that we need to look through the eyes of children once in a while - because for them, there is a simple answer to every question. Ask a child, why the sky is blue - he will answer that God liked the color.....

If you haven't watched the movie as yet, I would really suggest that you catch it, because it just might give you a new perspective.

Entry for Blogger's Contest

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Friends..... ...

They love you, but they are not your lover

They care for you, but they are not from your family

They are ready to share your pain, but they are not in your blood relation.

They are........FRIENDS!!!!!

True friend........

Scolds like a DAD...

Cares like a MOM...

Teases like a SISTER...

Irritates like a BROTHER...

And finally loves You more than a LOVER.

This was a mail, rather a forward, that a very dear friend of mine sent to me, and I couldn’t help but wonder, how true this was. I have been fortunate enough to have a few friends who are all this and beyond.

They love you, but they are not your lover

Probably the only people in the world, who would love you more than your lover! Just like lovers, they too want the best for you....they want to see you smile...they want to be a part of your laughter and your tears.

They care for you, but they are not from your family

Even though they are not a part of your actual 'family', they often provide you with the support even your family might not be able to. Isn't your best friend the first person to know all your 'deepest, darkest' secrets? Think back to the time when that cute guy in school talked to you - who was the first person, you wanted to tell...........Your best friend!!

They are ready to share your pain, but they are not in your blood relation.

They might not share any blood relations with you, but these are the people who know you inside out! One tear falling from your eyes, will have them panicking.....they won't let go, until you tell them what is wrong. They will be the first to bring you a glass of water and a tissue paper.......they will be the ones who will just sit with you, with their arm around you, while you pour your heart out....

My best friends have played numerous roles in my life:

Dad: When I needed counsel, they were there to talk sense into me, guide me through right and wrong, or provide just plain pep talk.

Mom: These were people who made sure that I ate on time, that I didn't let silly things bother me, that I was always behaving in a lady like manner and also more than once, doubled as my fashion co-ordinators!

Sister: Being an only child, I have never felt the need of having sisters around me, because I always found them in my friends. They teased me on my crushes, cheered me in my successes and became my shoulder to cry on, at times of failure. But most of all, they never let me quit!

Brother: I know all my guy friends will hate me for this, but many of them have played the role of doting, caring, protective and a few times irritating brothers. These are guys I know I will have near me, the minute I need them...without asking any questions!

I have been one of the fortunate few to have atleast a handful of such friends.....and I want to thank them for being a part of my life.

Have you thanked your friends lately??

Finding an angel

They say that each of us has our very own guardian angel, but there were times when I wondered, how would I know if I too had one.

And then I realised that any person who cared about me, loved me, made me smile and wiped away my tears, was probably my 'guardian angel'! Because isn't that what angels are meant to do? Take care of you, make sure that you happy, healthy and safe?

Fortunately for me, I found not one, but several such guardian angels in my life - my parents as well as special friends I have met along the path of life.

Each one of them has ensured that they knew of very joy and every sorrow in my heart.

They made sure that they made me smile, when tears were threatening to flood my eyes and were my shoulder to cry on, when I couldn't stop that flood.

They listened to all my tirades and outbursts with the utmost patience and became my guiding lights, when I seemed to be losing my way.

They made sure that I made the right choices, and stood by my decisions, once I had made the same.

They gave me the courage, that I was never really alone, because I would always have my support system, with me!

They also became my partners in crime, sharing an occasional mischief or prank, and then laughed with me, giving me memories to cherish for a lifetime.

Above all, they have given me unconditional love - love that I know I will treasure and value for as long as I live - love that will give me strenght to face the most trying of times - love that will always make me feel special and beautiful.

To all my guradian angels - you know who you are and how important you are to me. You know how much I value you in my life!

Today, I dedicate my blog, every piece of my writing to YOU!

I was thinking about what to write today....and I was surfing Google, when I came across this beautiful site. The site - http://ismsmessages.com/ - is filled with beautiful messages, and some of them got me thinking.

1. If you love someone set him free, if he comes back he’s yours; if he doesn’t he never was...

Now, this one makes you think of all the insecurities you have ever had in your life - whether in a romantic relationship or otherwise. But doing this is possible only for those who have truly loved, with all their heart….because allowing the person you love the freedom and space he or she deserves can be done only by those who have complete confidence in the relationship they share!

2. Love is not something that happens on first sight, it happens when you start knowing each other and in turn end up needing each other, for every feeling, for every thought and for every moment.

This I totally agree with – love at first sight happens only on the other side of the celluloid screen. In real life, you can fall in love only after knowing the person. I read somewhere once, that it is the easiest to fall in love with your best friend, because you know everything there is to know about them. They are always there when you need them the most – they have seen the best of you and the worst of you! They are the first people you turn to, in your moments of happiness and sorrow, anger and excitement!

3. Love is to think about someone else more times in a day than you think about yourself.

Isn’t this what happens in every relationship where there is a bond of love? A mother thinks more about her child, then she does of herself. A wife is more concerned about her husband having lunch, even if she herself is going hungry. When someone else’s mood perks you up or dooms your mood….you know that you are truly concerned about the other person!

4. Eyes are not meant for tears and heart is not meant for fear,

Never get upset but always cheer

Because you are the one who can make people smile for years.

Another true one – there might be a number of people in this world, who would give up anything to see you smile. I read elsewhere, that a smile is the second best thing to do with your lips; and in a world like the one we live in today, there is definitely the need for more smiles. So, smile, because you never know who is falling in love with it!